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The Illusion of Choice – Elections


I’ve done my share of watching the Republican Primary debates and news coverage for months. I’ve always wondered why the media always seemed to have their favorite politician picked and ready to shove down our throats. Shouldn’t their job be to give equal and unbiased coverage of ALL candidates. For example, the collective blatant blackballing of Ron Paul over the years seems very suspicious and unfair.  If I didn’t know any better, it seems like they are trying to pick the winner for us. But wait, we live in a free democratic country. After all, this November election, we will have our choice between Coke or Pepsi. So my vote counts, dammit.

So anyway, with Super Tuesday drawing near, I figured I share two videos that I feel are worth the time to watch. I will most probably write something later in the year concerning the election and the illusion of free choice.  In the meantime, enjoy the videos below!

 

 

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Weight Loss Secret

In the past, being overweight meant a life of excess and wealth. With the latest stats, this means half of all Americans must be living the life of royalty and convenience. I’m not a dietitian or even ever lost a substantial amount of weight (never had to). However, physical fitness and nutrition has interested me for some time and, for what it’s worth, I would like to offer some unbiased weight loss tips.  There’s lots of weight-loss bullshit to wade through out there and a bunch of gimmicky weight loss programs that come and go every couple of years. But what it all boils down to is a simple formula:

Hard work + Proper Diet = Weight loss and fitness results.

This formula is reliable and as true as the law of physics.  Sorry, but there is no way around it.  The following are my fitness/weight loss tips. They are very basic and should lay a solid foundation for which to build on to.  Now if you half-ass it, you’ll reduce the value of the left side of the equation which will directly reduce the output from the right side of the equation. In other words, you get out, what you put in.

With no further ado:

  1. Hard work
    1. We take for granted how easy and fast it is to get food and to consume it. There’s no physical work involved.  Hell, you don’t even have to know how to tend a garden or hunt.  You should try to keep in mind that food should be an award for physical work.
    2. Be active. Find a way to put in 30 minutes of activity every day. This time should be non-negotiable. Aim for functional fitness and maximum effort. The 30 minutes you made for yourself is not to be spent lollygagging. Sweat and work hard. Get your heart rate up and perform many activities engaging large movements and body parts.
    3. Weights are preferred, but are not required. You can use your body as weight (for example, try to finish 50 air squats, 50 pushups, and 50 sit-ups as fast as you can).  For most workouts, you should be exhausted at the end.  Check out crossfit.com for examples of daily workouts.
    4. 30 minutes of rigorous activity per day is enough. Any more will burn you out. Also, allow for 2 days of rest (weekends for example).
    5. Get sufficient sleep at night for proper recovery and energy levels. You will find it easier to sleep, once you are active during the day.
  2. Proper Diet
    1. Do your own due diligence and research on the foods you eat. Do not trust/assume the government/FDA to tell you what is safe. Depend on yourself to make the correct and well-informed decision.  Read your food labels.
    2. Aim for something around 60% complex carbs (not straight sugar), 30% protein, and 10% good fats for your daily food consumption.  You don’t have to be precise, just as long as you get the basic idea that every meal should be proportioned.
    3. Avoid consuming a large amount of food in a single meal. Instead, eat smaller meals throughout the day (five meals a day).  This will help prevent insulin spikes.
    4. Avoid simple sugar. Sugar is supposed to be a rare treat, not an everyday food staple. Sugar isn’t even supposed to be in our daily diet. It’s addictive and food companies exploit this.  Try to aim to only obtain sugar from a natural fruit source.
    5. Cut out all soda (diet or non-diet). One of the worst “foods” we consume.  It has no business in your diet.
    6. Cook your own food. If you don’t grow your own food or hunt it, at least learn to cook mostly from scratch. This means avoiding all processed, artificial, and fast foods.
    7. Don’t worry too much about counting calories in the beginning.  When you eliminate sugars, sodas, and processed food, you won’t be eating hidden calories anymore.  Eating a home-made, raw, natural diet will automatically cause a reduction in calories. Just eat whenever you are hungry.
    8. Look at food from the perspective of what nutrients it can provide to you.
    9. Indulge only when you earned it by performing physical activity.  Though you will find that, the more exercise you do, the less you crave junk food.

The above are general guidelines and should be gradually applied.  This is not a crash diet. It is a lifestyle change that slowly gets refined through the years.  Along the way, you may need some motivation or reminder of why such a lifestyle change is important – Proper exercise and diet impact other areas of your life other than looking good in a swimming suit. This is very important to remember. It positively impacts every cell and organ in your body, including your brain. It is preventive medicine, as it helps ward off health ailments of all kinds.  It makes you more resilient and gritty and improves your outlook/attitude on life. Our body has evolved to do work and use our brain. Do our ancestors a favor and take advantage of what you were given. Take ownership and accountability for your health!

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Monkey See, Monkey Do

I find it interesting that social animals seem to have the capacity to ostracize members of its society that pose a burden to the overall survival/advancement of the group. Somehow, perhaps through evolution (if you’re into Darwin), particular social rules and guidelines, required for the survival and advancement of the species, must have been developed and refined until they became innate characteristics.

Any member of the society that happens to break an implicit rule, is banished from the group. Unfortunately, such ostracized animals most likely face a premature and lonely death, due to loss of resources, support, protection, and social bonds.  I guess it’s a small price to pay for threatening the survival of the overall group.

Humans are, no doubt, social animals. However, along with developing such social rules, when and why did we develop the ability to ignore gut instincts and override the application of these rules required for our survival and advancement?  Why did we develop a conscience, compassion, guilt, remorse, sympathy, or whatever else to allow a member of our social group to burden us without immediately ostracizing them?  Why does it have to be difficult to apply such consequences?

Perhaps it’s only difficult for me?  You see, I’ve had the unique pleasure with having “friends” with either a borderline personality disorder, being a sociopath, or pathological liar.  In each of the cases, I ignored thousands of years of honed social instincts, to instead, endure years of punishment in hopes that the person would prove me wrong – in hopes the person would change. I gave them the benefit of the doubt. I gave them numerous “second” chances. The good still outweighed the bad. Enough time had passed since the last infraction. I was loyal to them. I didn’t want to give up on them. I was afraid to lose them.

All these excuses and more were used to override the rules instilled in me to ensure my survival and advancement of my species. And I had paid the price. But eventually, compassion left my body. I no longer felt sorry for the person. I couldn’t help but see reality – to see things objectively. I eventually let these toxic leeches go, but not without damage – damage to myself.  I’m hurt. I feel sorry for myself. I’m reluctant about others. I’m angry. I’m disappointed. I invested much time in them and passed on other social opportunities, all for nothing. I sacrificed my survival and well being for them. For this is why it hurts and fuels resentment. They were allowed a life, beyond natural limitations, and they are ungrateful.

I felt that way for a long time after finally ostracizing them. I wish I wouldn’t have waited so long.  Things are better now more than ever. There are no albatrosses to deal with. Life is much more peaceful and comprises of more positive energy. But I still can’t help but ponder such life experiences and social interactions that make us so unique. It’s all very interesting.

In the end of it all, a life lesson learned – I no longer tolerate disrespect towards me and abide by my survival instincts.  I thank the lemur for that (and Scientific Mind magazine for the article about social ostracizing).

(Credit for title pic to http://www.psych.ndsu.nodak.edu/colloquia/fall2011documents/sep23docs/samWilliams.pdf)
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Is Terrorism Relevant? Inherit Risk to Life

What's wrong with this picture?

The terrorists involved with the 9/11 attacks were geniuses as they outsmarted the CIA, Mossad, and MI6. They were able to avert airport security and managed to avert the best air defense system in the world – NORAD.  So what is wrong with the above picture?

To avoid similar attacks in the future, our wonderful government created the TSA, whose security policies creates long lines in airports as depicted above. Why would a would-be terrorist even bother to smuggle a weapon on board a plane, when all they have to do is detonate an explosive device right in the middle of this crowd?  There’s nothing that could stop a determined person from doing so. This argument/scenario alone proves that the TSA is useless and just gives people a false sense of security.

People should realize the the government cannot guarantee your safety. Even a private bodyguard could not fully guarantee your safety.  There is an inherit risk to living life. When you step outside to begin your day, anything could happen to you that could cause harm or death – a car accident or random act of violence, for example.

Let’s look at some numbers. Hopefully they favor the need for all this hysteria, government spending, the TSA, Big Brother surveillance, and the War on Terror.

Between 1968 – 2006 (in a span of 40 years) there has been a total of 3,227 deaths to U.S. citizens, due to terrorism, throughout the entire world (http://www.nationmaster.com/country/us-united-states/ter-terrorism).  That comes out to 80 deaths per year.  Let’s see how that compares to other causes of deaths within the US alone:

From http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/deaths.htm:

  1. Heart disease: 599,413 per year
  2. Cancer: 567,628 per year
  3. Chronic lower respiratory diseases: 137,353 per year
  4. Stroke (cerebrovascular diseases): 128,842 per year
  5. Accidents (unintentional injuries): 118,021 per year
  6. Alzheimer’s disease: 79,003 per year
  7. Diabetes: 68,705 per year
  8. Influenza and Pneumonia: 53,692 per year
  9. Nephritis, nephrotic syndrome, and nephrosis: 48,935 per year
  10. Intentional self-harm (suicide): 36,909 per year

And to really put things into perspective:

  1. There are 115 deaths per DAY by car accidents [http://www.car-accidents.com/pages/stats.html]
  2. Falls: 24,792 deaths per year [http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/dvs/deaths_2009_release.pdf]
  3. Complications from medical and surgical care: 2,616 deaths per year
  4. Alcohol: 24,518 deaths per year
  5. Poisoning: 41,592 deaths per year
  6. FDA Approved Drugs: 82,724 deaths per year [http://drugwarfacts.org/cms/?q=node/30]
  7. Food Allergy: 150 to 200 deaths per year [http://www.quora.com/How-many-people-die-each-year-from-peanut-allergies]
  8. Lightning: 90 deaths per year [NOAA Technical Memorandum NWS SR-193]
  9. Bee Sting: 50 deaths per year [http://www.webmd.com/skin-problems-and-treatments/insect-stings]
  10. Shoveling Snow: 100 deaths per year [http://obit-mag.com/articles/shoveling-deaths-by-the-numbers]
  11. I’m even seeing claims that there are 150 deaths per year by falling coconuts.

Well, I’ve seen enough. Let’s stop the foolishness and hysteria. This is ridiculous. Why are we spending so much time and effort on fighting such a miniscule threat? Is it worth the money? Is it worth all the pain and suffering? Is it worth losing your freedoms?

Random acts of violence will always happen and nothing is going to ever completely stop it. Let’s face it – humans can be crazy, unstable, and unpredictable. If someone has the hell-bent intention of causing mass violence, unfortunately for those in the wrong place at the wrong time, it is possible. Living life is wonderful but has its risks, which is one of the reasons why life is so precious. So let’s not live one more minute of our lives worrying about terrorism.

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OB/GYN – You’re FIRED!

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Ah that felt good – way overdue. Of course it was non confrontational. But privately, I did imagine that I had a Vince McMahon moment (you’re FIRED!) with my girlfriend’s OB/GYN.  The reason for the firing – lack of compassion and understanding.  The crime committed – no birth plan allowed.

Now they were very nice doctors, however very closed-minded.  We did our intensive research, and we simply wanted to voice our preference of having a natural birth. It makes me wonder why, in this case, female OB/GYNs lack the compassion to allow a fellow mother her full right to choose a preference for delivering her baby.  It’s sad when our desire for a completely natural child birth is shunned by the medical community.  It’s almost as if it is taboo or witchery in their eyes.  Don’t they realize that child birth is natural and can be done without a doctor’s intervention?  Maybe they feel their doctoral degrees trump the laws of nature?

Instead of being applauded for going the natural route (showing our due-diligence), we were cajoled into thinking it was best not to have one. With their silly grin, they made us feel naive and foolish to even propose such an absurd plan.  Birth delivery is unpredictable. This is understood.  But why not give your patients (customers) a chance?   Hmmm… maybe because:

  1. They are indoctrinated by the medical system.  Profit is top priority, followed by streamlined operations and profits for big pharma (who sponsor them).
  2. Most traditional OB/GYN have never experienced a natural birth, especially outside the hospital setting (e.g. home birth).
  3. They are not comfortable with anything outside what was taught to them and/or approved by their medical associations.  They identify symptoms, treat with synthetic drugs, and monitor and judge effectiveness with   tests or machines.  The notion that the female body naturally knows best and must be listened to, is uncomfortable to a doctor that must follow a protocol and believe only synthetic drugs can produce results.
  4. Having a natural childbirth is too complicated and has too many variables to deal with.  There is no time to tailor a plan of action for every individual. Do you think you are special? This is an assembly line folks – everyone is treated the same.
  5. Here’s what we really think is going to happen (and hope for, because anything else makes us nervous and doesn’t make $$):
    1. If baby is stalling and you are taking up valuable space in our hospital, we must break your water and induce you (Pitocin)
    2. But that causes violent contractions, so it’s only a matter of time you ask for painkillers (nurse get the epidural ready)
    3. If the baby is still being stubborn, we have no choice but to perform a c-section (money-maker $$$).  But don’t worry, you’ll have your baby in your arms in no time.

I’m quite positive that point #5 above would be mandatory practice all across America, if the subject of a women’s right over her body was not such a sensitive and charged topic. Ladies – you have the say here. It’s your body conversing with you and calling the shots. Make sure you listen. It’s the only natural and primordial health-related experience that has not been taken over by Western medicine.  Try as they will, a mother’s womb, birthing process, breast feeding/milk will never be replaced by technology or synthetic medicine. And they really despise that. So don’t let them steer you away from nature.  We didn’t. After all, we are the customer and we call the shots. We have since hired a new OB/GYN and he is awesome. It is quite refreshing.

Well as you can see, the pictured OB/GYN above is still smiling and will continue to smile.  I’m quite sure her and the whole practice is more than happy to not have to deal with customers like us.  There are countless other unaware mom-to-bes filling up her appointment book that are easy to succumb.  If you know such a mom-to-be, I suggest having her watch the documentary “The Business of Being Born” – http://www.thebusinessofbeingborn.com/